(Closed) Bridesmaid Issue-HELP-please

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What should I do?
    try calling and comfronting her/talking to her : (5 votes)
    56 %
    let it go and hope she doesn't show at the shower : (1 votes)
    11 %
    get your closure and email her basically saying she's out of the bridal party : (3 votes)
    33 %
    other. please explain below. : (0 votes)
  • Post # 5
    Member
    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I would definitely try to hunt her down. She might still be planning on coming. I know the pre-wedding, younger me would have assumed you would have known I was coming and not sent the RSVP. It’s obviously up to you whether or not you want to keep her, but either way I would track her down if I were you. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    1902 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Have you tried to talk to her about something other than the wedding? Try to meet her for lunch or something to break the ice. Don’t talk about the wedding or give her anything to do, just try to hang out and just be friends! If it were me, I don’t think she has really done anything that warrants being kicked out of the bridal party. She is probably just hurt or maybe feels torn between you and her boyfriend. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    1902 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @Ellabellaxo: Well, I might try to show up at her house or work and see if she is willing to talk. If not, I think she has made her own decision and there is nothing else you can do. I’d wait to see if she shows up at the shower, and if she doesn’t, she has made the decision for you and for herself.

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