(Closed) Bridesmaid issues

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

It sounds like you need to sit her down and talk to her. Are you still out of her wedding? If so, she’s probably going to drop out of your wedding also. 

Post # 5
990 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Tophiah:  She took you out of her wedding, its over a year away so she shouldnt have bought anything yet and she makes ou uncomfortable. Just let her know that you are very happy that she accepted but due to recent events you are taking the wedding in a different direction and want to rethink who you have as bridesmaids. If any of your other bridesmaids know her I would let them know you will be talking to her. Then I would ask your friend that you wanted to ask. What’s the worst that can happen? she cut you out of her life? Isn’t that something you are already considering?

Post # 6
688 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Maybe you should just tell her that since the circumstances have changed (even though they technically haven’t because she isn’t even engaged yet) you’ve reconsidered and would rather just have her as a guest and you know things have been a little “up in the air” and you value her enough to not have her as a Bridesmaid or Best Man to salvage your friendship.

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