(Closed) Bridesmaid issues…

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2007

I would just sit her down and tell her that she is very important to her, which is why you asked her to be a Maid/Matron of Honor.  However, you are getting the feeling that she isn’t interested in being in your wedding.  Tell her that you understand if she feels that she cannot make the commitment to be in your wedding, and you’d understand if she just wants to come as a guest, and give up her role as a Maid/Matron of Honor.  I would also possibly mention that you are very busy with your wedding and it is difficult that she isn’t being more supportive.  

Basically I would stress that you still want her to be in your wedding, but she needs to change her attitude.  You shouldn’t have to constantly be checking with her, or making special arrangements to avoid her getting upset about when she walks in or whether or not she can eat cake.  I’d give her an out if she wants to give up her role as Maid/Matron of Honor, but don’t try to push her to do so.  Maybe she doesn’t realize how she’s acting and just needs to reminder that this is your day and not hers. 

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