Post # 1
Seriously. A bridesmaid just got engaged on valentines day and just told me that she is getting married the same day as me now because it was the only day her venue had the date open. She has been in my bridal party since like, September. It is now almost March. Do I have a right to be upset??!! Another thing that irks me is I paid the deposit for her dress already, and she hasn’t paid me back yet and it’s been 3 months since I’ve paid it. It seems to me like she wasn’t too interested in my wedding to begin with.
I responded telling her thanks for letting me know, I am sad that she won’t be able to be in my wedding and even AT my wedding, and the same for me. The other frustrating thing is that we have some mutual friends from college; making them choose who’s wedding to go to is just awful!
Post # 4
oh wow! can she not get married the next year?! but again my little sister got engaged valentine’s day as well and wants to get married nye in my hometown (the day after my destination wedding!) so yeah shrug your shoulders and keep it moving (chocolate also is a great stress reliever) lol!
Post # 5
wow! that’s just ridiculous! i’d be pretty pissed off. i had a similar thing happen and i am no longer friends with the girl. she was just too jealous and had to constantly try to one up everything i did. it got annoying fast. she JUST got engaged and she’s already picked a venue and a date? what is her rush anyway? there are 365 days in a year and she has to choose the one you chose? that’s irresponsible on her part, she told you she would be in your wedding, you paid for her dress, and your wedding is her obligation. it’s also not fair to make mutual friends have to pick. good luck!!
Post # 6
No, that’s so messed up! She got engaged after you. If she’s a good friend, or at least respects you, she should of just choosen the next available date. Not only out of respect for you, but because its not right to put your mutual friends in a position where they have to choose which wedding to attend. There would most certainly be long lasting hard feelings if this were to happen to me. Honestly, I’d freak out. And I’d insist that she pay me back for the deposit!
Post # 7
i mean it’s not fair for the friends because she decided to be selfish.
Post # 8
Aww I’m sorry chicy <3 You do have a right to be upset…geez can’t she wait to get married?
Post # 9
Ooooh that’s so shady! I’m sorry that happened! And she’s gonna stiff you on the deposit, I feel it. . .sorry so sorry.
Her actions are so tacky i’m speechless.
Post # 10
Wow, that seems a bit inconsiderate to me…
Post # 11
ummm ew. I would totally be pissed! You have EVERY right to be upset especially if she’s a close enough friend to be in your wedding party! I find that pretty freakin hard to believe there isn’t a single day that could work! Bunch of BS if you ask me!
Chin up and get your save the dates out first so everyone knows and commits to your first 😉
oh and DEFINITELY get that money from her!
Post # 12
I can kind of not even believe that? I find it hard to believe that someone would do that!!!!
Post # 13
Thats a horrible thing to do!!! I am so sorry your friend did this to you, she doesnt really seem to be much of a friend. I truly hope things get better for you.
Post # 14
BOO for her.. she BETTER not join the weddingbee. haha just kidding.
Im so sorry … if it takes chosing sides.. I think its pretty obvious WHO everyone would pick!
Post # 15
That’s awful. Doesn’t sound like she’s someone you’d want standing up with you anyway. This may be for the best…
Post # 16
Unbelievable! I just don’t get people acting like that! I hope you can sell her dress.