(Closed) Bridesmaid just informed me that she is getting married on the same day

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

That SUCKS. I’m sorry. 🙁

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

oh wow! can she not get married the next year?!  but again my little sister got engaged valentine’s day as well and wants to get married nye in my hometown (the day after my destination wedding!) so yeah shrug your shoulders and keep it moving (chocolate also is a great stress reliever) lol!

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

wow! that’s just ridiculous! i’d be pretty pissed off. i had a similar thing happen and i am no longer friends with the girl. she was just too jealous and had to constantly try to one up everything i did. it got annoying fast. she JUST got engaged and she’s already picked a venue and a date? what is her rush anyway? there are 365 days in a year and she has to choose the one you chose? that’s irresponsible on her part, she told you she would be in your wedding, you paid for her dress, and your wedding is her obligation. it’s also not fair to make mutual friends have to pick. good luck!!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

No, that’s so messed up!  She got engaged after you.  If she’s a good friend, or at least respects you, she should of just choosen the next available date.  Not only out of respect for you, but because its not right to put your mutual friends in a position where they have to choose which wedding to attend.  There would most certainly be long lasting hard feelings if this were to happen to me.  Honestly, I’d freak out.  And I’d insist that she pay me back for the deposit! 

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

i mean it’s not fair for the friends because she decided to be selfish.

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Aww I’m sorry chicy <3  You do have a right to be upset…geez can’t she wait to get married?

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Ooooh that’s so shady! I’m sorry that happened! And she’s gonna stiff you on the deposit, I feel it. . .sorry so sorry.

Her actions are so tacky i’m speechless.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wow, that seems a bit inconsiderate to me…

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

ummm ew. I would totally be pissed! You have EVERY right to be upset especially if she’s a close enough friend to be in your wedding party! I find that pretty freakin hard to believe there isn’t a single day that could work! Bunch of BS if you ask me!

Chin up and get your save the dates out first so everyone knows and commits to your first 😉

oh and DEFINITELY get that money from her!

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I can kind of not even believe that? I find it hard to believe that someone would do that!!!!

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Thats a horrible thing to do!!! I am so sorry your friend did this to you, she doesnt really seem to be much of a friend. I truly hope things get better for you.

 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

BOO for her.. she BETTER not join the weddingbee. haha just kidding.

Im so sorry … if it takes chosing sides.. I think its pretty obvious WHO everyone would pick!

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

That’s awful.  Doesn’t sound like she’s someone you’d want standing up with you anyway.  This may be for the best…

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

Unbelievable! I just don’t get people acting like that! I hope you can sell her dress.

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