(Closed) Bridesmaid just pulled out via email :(

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m so sorry to hear that. Did she give any reason? That really does suck. ((hugs))

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Aw I’m so sorry! Did she allude to any reasoning behind it? I’m assuming its a personal issue, and not that she doesn’t want to be there for you? Either way though, that really sucks – I’d be crushed, too.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

AWWWWWW that is horrible. Did she give you any reason? And why through email?

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Really sorry to hear that too. Hope everything pans out ok. Least she told you now instead a week before the wedding or something.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010 - Ladder 15 Restaurant

Oh that’s too bad!  Is her reason legitimate at least?  I guess if there is a bright side, now your party will really comprise of people you love and who really love you enough to stand by your side that day.

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Oh no!!!! Why? I hope she’s ok too. Maybe there’s something personal going on?

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Maybe you should call her or arrange a coffee date. It sounds like there’s something going on in the background. I get that not everyone wants to air their laundry, but I think she owes you a little bit of an explanation. Like you said, if it’s a money issue, there are ways to help. I would let her know how much you value your relationship and how much it would mean to you if you guys could figure out a way to make it work. I hope it works out hon, keep us posted.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010 - Philippe Park

Is she strictly not going to be in the wedding party, or is she unable to attend the wedding itself? It’s kind of messed up of her to pull out with a one liner e-mail and not even offer up an explanation.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I’m sorry to hear that! It’s sad that your closest cousin won’t be able to stand up with you when you get married. I hope everything’s okay with her.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee

Oh no, that’s sad! I hope everything is ok with her, and hopefully you can work it out with her!

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

🙁 I’m sorry. That is a big bummer.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

So sorry to hear this! I had a Maid/Matron of Honor back out via text. I texted her to ask if she’d be able to order her dress by the deadline, and she replied with “I can’t be in your wedding” and that was the last I heard from her except a letter where she gave my rent deposit back (I had moved out a week before to move into the house my husband and I were going to rent).

People suck sometimes.

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