(Closed) Bridesmaid monogram question

posted 4 years ago in Accessories
Post # 2
528 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2016 - Long Island, NY

If it were me (and I’m getting married in 12 months), I’d rather have my future initials on the clutch. 

There’s nothing wrong with having my current initials on it if you feel more comfortable, I woudln’t be upset to see my current initials. I just know I would be super happy and it would make me feel great to see my future intials.

Post # 3
1308 posts
Bumble bee

If you’re 110% sure she is taking his name, I would go for it.

Post # 4
8100 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

KapOct18:  I’d probably do her current initials since her wedding is almost a year away. That said my friend gave me a bridesmaid gift bag with my new initials on it and I loved it, but I got married less than a month after her. 

Post # 5
358 posts
Helper bee

I would make sure that she is taking his last name. If so and it were me, I would love to see my new initials, even if it is still almost a year away. 🙂

Post # 6
6834 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

Can’t you just ask her what she’d prefer? Everyone is different. If it were me I’d just tell my bridesmaid that I’m planning on giving her something monogramed (you don’t have to tell her what it is) and you were wondering what initials she’d like to have. 

Post # 7
7039 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

KapOct18:  Just ask her. Personally, I’d want my new initals because it seems super silly to spend money on something you know will basically be obsolete in a year. 

Post # 8
331 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

agree with starfish! just ask her! it would suck to get something that she might really like and not have her new initials on it. its like a gift with an expiration date.

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