(Closed) bridesmaid? no maid?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1361 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

How much inactivity would you take from a friend?  Would you cut her out of your life for not replying to a text message if you weren’t getting married?

Post # 4
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@beckster329 +one

Post # 6
1789 posts
Buzzing bee

That is not boding well. I would try calling her instead of texting, that is more direct. Invite her out for coffee or lunch and make more effort to see her( not saying you are lazy or anything) And if she still ignores you, drop her. Possibly as a friend.

Think about what Beckster said

Post # 7
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Unfortunately I also have friends where this happens and we don’t connect often, and that was with most of my bridesmaids. Even now I can can count on one hand the amount of times I’ve spoken to some of my bridesmaids since my wedding, which was almost 5 months ago.

If you had a regular routine with this bridesmaid before the engagement or bridesmaid-asking where you were talking once a week, I would try to initate more contact, like phone calls or going out. I wouldn’t mention the wedding and I would just try and have fun with her and re-connect within the friendship. After that, if you see she’s avoiding you for some reason or not wanting to hang out/blowing off plans, then you should talk to her about what is going on. You never know, there might be something going on in her life that she just doesn’t want to burden you with because you’re planning a wedding and have a lot going on, which is why she appears to be more distant. 

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