(Closed) Bridesmaid Outcry

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

It really isn’t any of their business, if they aren’t close to you; however, if you have a gossipy office, I would invite them, just so you don’t have to deal with them later. Hopefully, they will decide not to come, if you don’t really like them.

Post # 4
818 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

If possible, invite them to save yourself the headaches and snippy behavior later. It’ll be easier for you in the long run.

Post # 5
1148 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I’d say that even if it is a close office, if they don’t make you feel comfortable talking with them, just say that it is a close family affair and you just don’t have room for anyone that’s not a close friend. I would suggest briefing your Bridesmaid or Best Man about it beforehand so that she doesn’t tell them otherwise.

Post # 7
322 posts
Helper bee

Forget all the drama and move on… its entirely your choice whom you chose to invite and moreover, give the honor of being in your bridal party to. Send them an invite, but dont let them emotionally blackmail you into feeling guilty or upset. You did what you would have wanted and that’s all that matters. If they already think you are lying, no amount of covincing is going to get them to change their minds and honestly why would you want to anyway? They are colleagues, not close family…

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