(Closed) Bridesmaid posts plus bride to fat shaming site

posted 2 years ago in Dress
Post # 16
Member
601 posts
Busy bee

I’m questioning why someone would make an account just to link that and if it’s because the bride posts here….

It’s a site populated by simpletons that doesn’t deserve anymore traffic for any reason. 

Post # 17
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2857 posts
Sugar bee

Sorry, I’m unable to properly tag you on my iPhone. The site will not receive an increase in traffic from being linked here, as I’ve removed the link. Fat shaming is not condoned on Weddingbee. 

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Post # 18
Member
601 posts
Busy bee

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des- :  Is there a reason why you tagged me specifically? I’m glad you removed the link. The whole point of this thread deserves side-eye. 

Post # 19
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9163 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

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Daisy_Mae :  It is on a couple of other sites. I have seen it twice today besides on here so it is likely the friend saw it elsewhere.

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weddingmaven :  If I was the bride I would want to know even if it hurt. She deserves to know that someone close to her is this horrid. I have only seen support for the bride and no shaming outside that vile site. Hopefully the bride will be able to work out which person in her life is this horrible. 

Post # 21
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4792 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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missbutton5 : 

 it was my friends bfs friend he is a bit of a gym douche. Obviously he thought I shouldn’t wear a strapless dress I’m only a size xl not even plus like this bride.

Why honestly would you post this and why on earth would you associate with someone who would say something so horrible to you about your body and tell you essentially by example that you are ‘too large’ to wear strapless?  This person probably spends a lot of time on such an awful racist/sexist/size-ist board to know about what it posts and use it as reference as to what you shouldn’t wear. Why would you want to associate with someone like that and I hope you told them to f*ck off and called them out on their behavior and thought process? I hope you didn’t just stay quiet and then scurry to weddingbee to post this and perpetuate the hurt I’m sure the people on that photo must be feeling knowing that some oxygen theif posted their pictures in order to embarrass and make fun of them. You reposting the link just adds to an already hurtful situation and with so few post counts I question your motivation to be honest. ☹️

Post # 22
Member
1948 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

i missed all the drama, but ive never heard of fat shaming websites before, like is that really a thing now a days?!?? 

Post # 23
Member
6308 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

“it was my friends bfs friend he is a bit of a gym douche. Obviously he thought I shouldn’t wear a strapless dress”

The gym douche seems to be close enough to you if he’s in on your wedding dress discussions.

Post # 24
Hostess
10349 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL

Getting a ton of flags so closing for review

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