(Closed) Bridesmaid problem – Please advise!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3885 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

You should sit down with both of them (maybe together, maybe separately) and let them know how the bickering between them is making you feel sad and hurt. Let them know you love them both and that you’ll be grateful if they’d give it a rest. Don’t worry about what your fiancé’s other friends think; it’s your wedding and your friendship, not theirs. Don’t ask her to step down. That would pretty much end the friendship. But her ex is half the problem and needs to have the same speech as she does.

Post # 4
597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@helouise1977:  I agree with fishbone, ask them if they would simmer down for a few days because of your wedding. I’m sorry this is going on with you but they both care about you so they will probebly agree. 

Hope everything works out for the best! 

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