(Closed) Bridesmaid problems?

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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898 posts
Busy bee

I think that you should just talk to your half-sisters and see how they really feel. I’m sure that they really do understand the situation, and since they’re married, they probably know how stressful it is to keep everyone happy. Can they do readings at the ceremony?

Post # 4
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133 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

There are plenty of important places you could have them at your wedding.

If you’re doing any readings or songs during your ceremony, you could ask them to do so. If not, you can make up a unique part of your ceremony in include them. We did a tea ceremony instead of a unity candle and had a friend prepare the tea.

It worked out nicely that I have one brother would I asked to walk my mom down the aisle during the seating of the parents.

In your case, perhaps your two older half sisters could both escort your mom down the aisle.

Additionally, a lot of people think that the guest book attendant position is kind of crappy to give to someone, but in our case it was particularly special. A lot of people from my culture give red envelopes filled with money as a gift as opposed to the traditional western gift. It was her job to keep track of each gift, safeguard it during the wedding, and thank them as a representative of both our families. She was particularly touched to be given that honor.

 

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