(Closed) bridesmaid problems

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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3211 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Well I think equating being Maid/Matron of Honor to “getting credit” is silly and the whole thing sounds immature, but that said – “No.” is a complete sentence. Use it. 

Post # 3
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239 posts
Helper bee

I say build a bridge. If you have time and want to help, great! But it’s not your duty. What’s done is done, being bitter will hurt you in the end, not them.

Post # 5
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1406 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Why isn’t your friend planning her own wedding?

Post # 8
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3211 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

clueless123:  Nope. If she can’t plan she needs to hire a wedding planner.  It’s no ones responsibility to plan a wedding that isn’t theirs. 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

 

clueless123:  Yeah, no.  Maid of honor isn’t responsible for planning the bride’s wedding.  The bride and groom are.  Or as carolinabelle said, they can hire a planner if they can’t do it themselves.

Post # 10
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5155 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

clueless123:  Sorry but if she is planning from abroad, she needs to hire a professional wedding planner. The Maid/Matron of Honor / BM’s are NOT required to plan this girl’s wedding. In fact, if that’s what the Maid/Matron of Honor position entails, I’d prefer not to be the MOH!

Enjoy your freedom not getting sucked into this wedding, and begin saying “NO” or “I’m busy” when they want to do something. 

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