- 3 years ago
- Wedding: October 2015
I have a couple questions:
When did you all choose your bridal party?
My wedding is not until October 2015, but my FI has already picked his four guys, but he hasn’t actually asked them yet. I’m happy he has close friends, but I’m terrified that I won’t have anyone to stand up with me. We agreed that we wanted each other’s siblings in the wedding. My brother will be standing on his side and his sister is supposed to stand on my side. His sister is digging her hole VERY deep lately so I am definitely second guessing her involvement in the wedding.
How did you choose your bridal party?
I wanted to pick the girls I loved and who I wanted to be with me on the day I committed to my man forever. But over the last 2 years I’ve basically lost 4 women who I felt were my friends, including one who was my best friend. Out of nowhere, they all just stopped talking to me. Two of them deleted me off of FB and I NEVER hear from the other two even though I try to contact them frequently. So, it’s looking like the BP is going to be uneven.
I have another option though. I have 2 half sisters, 1 I’ve never met and the other one I’ve met twice. I am in contact with then, but we talk very sporadically. Things are weird and still fairly complicated with them. We are working on improving the realationship, but I feel like it would be too much pressure on me and my sisters for me to ask them to be my bridesmaids.
Just once, I wish I wasn’t such an introvert & I really wish my family situation wasn’t so complicated.