- 4 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
I get it, i don’t like wedding, but i got one. Pushed by family members and everything. One of my bridesmaid is very single and frankly desperate for a guy. She loves wedding, she dreamed of her own wedding, she doesn’t have a guy yet but she has already picked a photographer for her future wedding. She helped me out a lot with this wedding, and i am very very thankful for it, and i expressed it to her every single time and treated her to a lot of things. She was the one who rejects most of my offer to treat her out of her own pride.
I was handed a mic to do a speech off guard, and i said i don’t like weddings because i am shy, and i’ll be fine with everything as long as my family is there to attend. Is it meant to diss people who loves wedding, no. I had a brainfart, was all over the place, dedicate my thanks to my family, cut my speech short, and forgot to thank people. I told everyone thank you in person. The next day i sent out a thank you messages for everyone who helped me out.
She replied by saying everyone hated my speech but was just too nice to call me a spoiled brat because ‘i hate wedding’, taking my words out of context, and pissed because she helped me out but didnt get a public thank you. A day after the wedding when we were on our way to honeymoon. Pissing on our relief because we thought the wedding went well and everyone said they had a blast.