- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
It hurts me to admit this, but I am really unhappy about one particular person that I chose to be a bridesmaid. The worst part is she is my cousin. We are only 3 weeks apart, used to talk every day, and have taken quite a few vacations together. I don’t want to assume her reason, but she has been VERY distant. We don’t speak at all anymore. I called her about 2 weeks ago to say hi, she spoke about herself for about 20 minuttes, but never asked me anything about me or what’s going on in my life.
We did have a little tiff a few months back and I called her out for not being supportive about any of my decisions for my wedding. She got upset with me and said she wouldn’t order her gown since she can’t comment on my wedding, but she took her comment back and she did order her gown. We temporarily made-up, but things are worse now. I have four other bridesmaids that are GREAT! I secretly wish that I only had 4 and I had told #5 not to bother ordering the gown.
Anyone else experiencing this?