- Future Mrs.Schug
- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
Ok I will try to keep this short so here it goes. Fiance and wanted a long engagement for various reasons, so he proposed March 5, 2011 (wedding is October 26, 2012) so almost immediatley after the proposal in my excitement I asked my childhood frined of 18 years to be a Maid/Matron of Honor and my High school friend of 6 years to be my Bridesmaid or Best Man, we were such good friends I assummed we would remain that way until the wedding, well I was wrong. So in July we had a falling out over something soooo dumb inmy opinion, but she stopped talking to me and we have not talked since, so its been 6 months, and I just asked my FI’s sister to take her place (she was honored, and actually my first choice but I didnt ask her since he has 2 sisters and I am only close to the one, turns out the other doesny care anyways 🙂 ) So to get to the point, sorry I rambled, but should I tell my former friend to be respectful, or is it so obvious that she has been replaced that i should say nothing.
I want to be clear that I would not mind being friends with her and resolving this dumb issue, but I will by no means put her back in the wedding if we do make up any thoughts or suggestions are greatly appreciated!