(Closed) Shoe dilemma

posted 7 years ago in Shoes
Post # 3
6892 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I think it’s a reasonable request. The other option is that you let the other girls wear whatever shoes they want to as well.

I had a similar thing happen. I was going to have my girls all wear different dresses in the same color and length but they literally all preferred one. After that, I decided the shoes should be different, and told them they can wear shoes of whatever height or style as long as they are the same color.

Post # 4
46647 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Absolutely reasonable, although I would have her in the same shoes for the ceremony also. She can change following pics.

Post # 5
13096 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I prefer the look of matching Bridesmaid or Best Man shoes (when they are wearing short dresses so they are visible).  I don’t think it is asking too much to request this, especially since she will particularly stand out if she is the only one who doesn’t match.

Also, I would have her match for the ceremony as she will be in a lot of those pictures.

Post # 7
709 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Totally not bridezilla! I agree with PP. Just ask her to wear the matching shoes for the ceremony and formal pictures, but in a way to show its not really up for discussion 😉 I don’t see why it would cause a problem.

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