(Closed) Bridesmaid shoes

posted 10 years ago in Shoes
Post # 3
305 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

I don’t see why you can’t ask.  Just ask if there is a particular shoe or color she would like you to wear, or if you could just pick them out on your own.

Post # 4
2292 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

Maybe you’re all going barefoot?   Or possibly she just hasn’t thought about it yet.  Does she seem like the sort of bride who wants you all to wear the same shoes?  If yes, maybe you could propose a couple of options that you like.  If not necessarily, maybe ask what color/style of shoes she was thinking about having you wear.  Hopefully she will just specify black sandals or something, and you can find your own.  I would hesitate to just keep my mouth shut, in fear that some crazy shoe mandate would surface two weeks before the wedding, causing you a lot of stress.  If you don’t want to ask the bride, maybe you can email the Maid/Matron of Honor and have her find out?  (I know, she procrastinates too…  best I can come up with though.)

Post # 5
1061 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

I would ask. I was in a wedding where the bride had originally not said anything, so we all figured that we could wear what we wanted. Yeah, that isn’t what she meant. I had to go out to WALMART after the rehearsal dinner and buy the only silver shoes they had, which of course happened to be heinous!  Luckily, the dress was long so no one could see them. =

So long story short: ask her.

Post # 6
245 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2008

just ask now, it will save the pain of searching under pressure later on. if you havent gotten your dress in yet i might wait so you can try it on w the dress.

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