Post # 16
fairybread052 : Haha! Pretty much!!! If I post again care to be my mouth piece ha! Yeah not after them doing my bidding at all. The only person I expect that from is my htb aha.
Yes I think just having them both just as bridesmaids is best – she had this same problem! She wanted me as Maid of Honour but has known the other girl longer (that would definitely upset her) and I said have her or none at all aha. I should listen to my own advice aha. I think it’s because she is willing to do so much (no prompting from me) that’s why I thought she should be considered!
But yes you got in one!
Post # 17
livsylivs : Haha what you wrote was absolutely fine – you will just see that bridesmaids is a VERY touchy subject on these boards for some reason ( I don’t get it personally ).
I know everything can get pretty stressful and start to seem really complicated when you get up in your own head about things – trust me – been there! Weddings do sometimes seem like a minefield of possibilities of offending people. If you keep them both as bridesmaids you can always take your friend who has been super helpful out to lunch just the two of you before or after the wedding just as an extra ‘thank you’ for doing so much, then she will know all the help is definitely appreciated but you won’t be in the awkward position of offending one or both of them with a title