- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
I am just now coming to terms with one of my bridesmaids setting her wedding date a week before mine, I’ll call her Bridesmaid or Best Man A. From the time I found out I knew I had no right to be hurt but that didn’t stop the feelings.
Anyway my Maid/Matron of Honor wanted all of my bridesmaids and me to get together for a dinner to catch up and talk about the wedding. It was a super sweet idea of hers. She texted and told me the day of that everyone was coming and she was super stoked because she had changed the date multiple times to suit everyones busy schedules and finally found a good date. She then texted back a couple hours later stated that Bridesmaid or Best Man A couldnt come anymore. She even offered to go pick her up because she and her fiance only have one vehicle but she said she didnt want to take her baby out in that.
Well…here comes my feelings being hurt yet again. 1. She knew about this a month ahead of time and I feel like if she wanted to be there she would have been and 2. We all love her baby and we were going to a nice restaurant. It wasn’t like we were going to a bar or something. I mean she took her baby to her college so she could celebrate graduating. Come one now..
I’m really just venting because I’ll never say anything to her about any of this because I would rather just get over it instead of saying anything to her and making her mad. But I do feel like when it comes to anything about her wedding she is going to want me to jump but yet so far anything for mine she has turned down. One of my Bridesmaid or Best Man even drove an hour that night to come eat dinner and talk with all of us after she got off work, so I really just don’t understand Bridesmaid or Best Man A.