(Closed) Bridesmaid Toast????

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
4822 posts
Honey bee

If you already told her to do it at the rehearsal dinner, than I think you should allow her. The time to decline the offer was when she first brought it up.

You could speak with whoever is throwing the rehearsal dinner to ensure it is OK. If its not OK than you could tell your Bridesmaid or Best Man that since you are not throwing the party arent in charge of the schedule of it and “so and so” requested no additional speeches above those already scheduled. But I wouldnt make that up, dont like, only if its true.

Post # 4
286 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I would meet up with her for lunch. Tell her you’ve been thinking about it and while you love the thought and kindness of it but would ideally like to keep the toasts to a minimum. She may be hurt by it but if its that big a deal letting her down gently is the only way to go.

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