Post # 151
That is not at all what I am saying. If they were aweful, they wouldn’t be in MY wedding. And I was just claryfying what is going on, I have tried to see their perspective thats why I have tried to help them with whatever they needed to make sure they get there on time. But, you would know that if you had read my posts. I have already spent over 600.00 to help them and make things easier. If I knew they were going to be there the day of, it’d be no big deal, but again….if you had read my posts you would know this.
Post # 152
At first I thought that you were asking for a lot, and that’s my fault because when you said that it was a destination wedding, I was thinking flying to Mexico or something. A 6 hour drive is not bad at all and if I were your bridesmaid, I would totally make sure that I was there days before too! You need/want them there for emotional support and pictures and stuff. I totally get that!
Post # 153
When you said “I was baffled when others were saying that Bridesmaid or Best Man dont do these things!” I totally agreed with you. For the commenters who say the only responsiblity of the Bridesmaid or Best Man is to show up, I think, they must be the type of friend who does the bare minimum. I absolutely disagree with this. and do not want to even be friends with that type of person!! Just show up? That’s so bare minimum to me. I am a Bridesmaid or Best Man type that likes to help and I show respect to the bride and other BM’s. You show up yes, but you also help and try to alleviate the stress of the bride. Isn’t that what a BM/friend does? not just show up. Geez, it’s a stressful time. Help the bride out!! (I wish I could help you!)