Post # 16
Go on and ask her! I was in the shoes of your friends once. One of my friend thought we’ve drifted away from each other, so do I, but she called and asked me to be her BM! I was so thrilled and picked it up as a chance to build our friendship instantly. It was amazing. I still remembered when she toast, she said to memories and to future. So beautiful. Go ahead, you won’t loose a thing in asking. Even if she truned down on you, you did a right thing in asking.
Post # 17
I know you’re probably reminiscing the fun old days you both shared, but I probably wouldn’t ask her. Especially since she makes more effort to see her other HS friends but made no effort to keep in touch with you (but of course it goes both ways ie. you have to make an effort too). There are people who can meet once a year but the spark remains like nothing changed. You didn’t mention whether you two have a good time or not when you two meet up. But yeah, in case of drama, I would invite her as a guest. Good luck!