(Closed) Bridesmaid trying to have baby baptised day after Bachelorette Party HELP!

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
1269 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Because you feel it will take away from the wedding?  Or because you will be recovering from hangover? 

Post # 4
1030 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I don’t get it either..Why not?

Post # 5
3364 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I dont think the baby and your Bach party* should have anything to do with one another!

If she wants to have her baby baptized and is taking the consideration to ask for your “Ok” or even ” Blessing” to do it the day after and not be taken as rude, I give her props! 

You cant be mad cuz she went about doing things the right way! Now have your fun and set that alarm to make it to the baptism! =]

Post # 6
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t think that most of the people going to your Bachelorette party will be going to the baptism so I don’t really see much of a cross over.  Yes, the mom might have to leave a little early if you have a late night party, but otherwise, I don’t see much of an interruption for you.

Post # 7
1030 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011


day after the wedding is one thing.. Day after bachelorette party is why I’m confused..

Post # 8
1391 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Sorry, I don’t think that is a problem. Just drink a ton of water before you go to bed so you don’t have a hangover if that’s what you are concerned about.

Post # 10
971 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

I don’t get what the big deal is, either.  If you’re too hung over to go, then don’t go.  It’s the risk that this woman has to take.  It seems like you’re not the Godmother, so I doubt that your presence will be missed if you’re too hung over to skip.  And, if she’s at the baptism hung over, then that’s her fault.  Your Fiance will have to deal with how he feels since he’s godfather. 

Post # 11
10287 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I have no idea why something like this would make you mad. For starters its not like its your actual wedding, its your bachelorette party but even if it were your wedding, you only get one day.

Are you mad because you think you’ll be hungover? Thats just something your going to have to deal with. I don’t really see the point in getting belligerently drunk anyway. Drink a bottle of water and take 3 asprins before passing out. You’ll be perfectly fine the next morning. 

Post # 13
1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I agree with others; if you don’t think you can make it to the baptism, then don’t go. Plus you can’t predict the future. You may not drink as much as you think you will or you may not have a hangover.

Post # 16
7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@StartingMrsWoods: Okay, I mean this in the nicest way, but don’t you think you are being a bit of a bridezilla? You can’t expect people to put their lives on hold for your wedding day. It’s not like she is asking to get it done during or 3 hours after your wedding. 

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