(Closed) Bridesmaid wants to wear dress before my wedding!

posted 11 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Would you be okay with one of your bridesmaids wearing her dress before your wedding?


    NO WAY!

    Under certain circumstances...

    Other, please explain!

  • Post # 17
    1770 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I wouldn’t worry about it!  I think it’s awesome she loved the dress enough to wear it!

    Post # 18
    3578 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I’d be fine with it. In fact, I’d be thrilled she’s getting more use out of it than just my wedding!

    Post # 19
    4211 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I wouldnt care at all. As long as if something were spilled it got cleaned then its fine!

    Post # 20
    8375 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    She paid for it, so yeah, it’s her perogative to wear it. Unless she is wearing it to some craaaazy parties, I don’t see how she could possibly ruin it beyond dry cleaning.  I dry clean all my nice dresses and they never change colors, so I would have zero concern

    Post # 21
    1073 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    I think it’s fine! Especially since no one at the other function will be at the wedding. Kudos on picking a dress she wants to wear again!

    Post # 22
    3423 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I wore my Bridesmaid dress to an event before my friend’s wedding.  I never told her though 😛 No one at the event was going to her wedding (college event) so it worked out I didn’t ruin it. 🙂

    Post # 23
    4460 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I wouldn’t mind. If she paid for it then it’s her dress. If she spilled something on it, it can always be cleaned. Now, maybe I would be nervous if the event was like the night before the wedding. 

    Post # 24
    11 posts
    • Wedding: August 2012

    well it depends what kind of event is it..is it like everyone drinking? because there might be a little too much that could happen to it. i mean yea she paid for it..but she paid for it for your wedding. so i think it depends on the event.

    Post # 25
    979 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I would be a little worried about the dress, but it IS hers. I guess it’s great that she likes it so much and CAN wear it again!

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