(Closed) Bridesmaid who think’s she the bride.RANT!!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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well ,it  always crappy when a bridesmaid needs to be pampered more than the bride does. Just let her do whatever she wants as long as she is paying for it! As for the hair, stick to your guns. If all of your maids are wearing it how you tell them to, then that is the stipulation of her being in your bridal party! In the beginning one of my MOHs was really ‘in your face’ with planning and such.. she said she hated veils.. (i love them) she bragged about how she let her girls wear dresses that were shorter because they could use them again (mine are floor length)  and the list goes on and on.. Once she realized her opinion was less important than mine.. she backed off. 

Post # 4
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  • Wedding: April 2012

Yikes, sorry to hear about this! I definitely agree that IT IS YOUR DAY but there are just some people we have to compromise with. Here’s my take:

Dress: If she wants to change it up then SHE should pay for it, you’ve already paid for the dress!

Shoes: I think you may compromise on this, if you want to of course, but she should wear heels during the ceremony and part of the reception and then maybe change into flats when it’s time to party.

White coat: Just say no… why is she even thinking about wearing anything white at all. 

Hair: I think you can compromise on this, I think just as long as she has what you want, a little bangs will be ok…

Hang in there everything will turn out great!!! Just compromise and pick your battles.

I still have a year to plan and I’m sure something like this will happen to me, boo.

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