- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
Now dont get me wrong before i was marrying her brother me and my sister in law to be got on ok for the most part, but during the planning of the wedding she has become my knightmare bridesmaid here is a list of thig’s she said so far:-
the dress + alterations- now i let my bridesmaid’s pick there own dresses from the dessy collection so we already knew she liked the dress as she picked it, and she got to try on the size that we ordered i thought the dress looked perfect other than length as she very short, next thing she saying she wants the ruching reduced and the neckline taked in, now if i think the dress look’s perfect should i really pay for alteration’s i dont think are needed when ive paid for the dress? i dont think so.
the shoes- firstly she wanted high heels with her being so short and then change to flats in the evening, now how does this work with a full length dress? it doesnt
The white coat – now ive arranged to have photo’s taken from us getting ready to are arrival etc, now i know im getting married in october but a white bomber jacket does in no way work with a full length red bridesmaid dress, my ceremony and reception are also in the same building for other than maybe having 1 photo outside she has no reason to need a coat,ive told her brother ill cut her out of my photo’s if she dare’s wear the coat.
Hair – i got alot of idea’s from each of my bridesmaid’s about what kind of thing they would like but ive decided i wanted them to have different style’s with braid’s incorporated so hair will be off there face’s in a very elgant way, my sister in law in one breath stated she like’s the hairstyles ive chosen but want to keep her fringe!!!
Is it me but who does my sister in law think she is, none of my other bridesmaids have been this awkward about everything, i thought a bridesmaid job was to make my life easier not make me hate her….. the best part is she has gone into a hair salon to ask there advice on her hair etc……am i right in saying it’s my day and if i want her to look like coco the clown then i can as it’s my day!!!!
Ive tried talking to my fiance about this but it’s his baby sister and he always take’s her side im so frustrated i just dont know what to do, and now his mum has become strange with me also.
any advice on this would be great bee’s.