(Closed) Bridesmaid with a Baby (PLEASE HELP!)posted 9 years ago in Emotional
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
THANK YOU everyone, both for making me feel a little better, sharing your perspectives and ideas. I TOTALLY agree this is not worth ruining a lifelong friendship over (and we have been friends since elementary school!), but i also agree that it is her responsibility to find a sitter–even if that person has to tag along with us the whole day (which I am fine with).
I will throw out the option of finding a sitter herself, but also asking my Future Mother-In-Law if she has any suggestions. I think you’re right:I can present some options but it’s ultimately her responsibility and if it comes to it, decision about what she’s going to do. I want to be as CLEAR as possible (to her) that I desperately want her AND her baby there–I know being a mom is part of who she is, and that is not at ALL the issue–I just want to be sure there is a way to have the baby there that is not an additional stress/burden on, well, selfishly, me.
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: August 2010
do you have any friends/family/acquaintances with kids in ca who could recommend someone? I don’t think you need to do the arranging yourself, but it’d be fairly easy to email/facebook/call around and get a few numbers that you could refer your friend to
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