(Closed) bridesmaid with metal teeth braces

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
5668 posts
Bee Keeper

@me marry: Nope. You could ask your photog to photoshop them out later (though this seems silly). Don’t ask her to change them. You presumably asked her to be a bridesmaid because she’s a close friend, not because you wanted a model in your pictures.

Post # 4
Member
13099 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I guess you could ask your photographer to photoshop them out.

I don’t know what you expect you Bridesmaid or Best Man to do though.  It’s not like she can get her braces removed in order to be in your wedding.  They are cemented to her teeth and are quite a process to get put on and get taken off.

ETA: I seriously hope you are joking about something “being done” though.

Post # 5
Member
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh please let this be a joke. Please, please, please. No, you absolutely cannot ask your bridesmaid if anything can ‘be done’ about her braces. Silly her, not puting her health above braces in your wedding pictures. I think it’s really insensitive that it even bothers you, I doubt she loves having to wear braces but in no way will it affect your wedding photos.

I’m sure there are ways they can be photoshopped or she can smile with her teeth showing, but I would find it incredibly appalling and vain if you actually considered either of those options. Like Aure said, she is your friend, not a model you’re selecting to pose for the prettiest picture.

Post # 6
Member
814 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Oh wow I really hope you’re joking. I had braces as a teenager and they made me extremely self-conscious. Don’t say anything to your Bridesmaid or Best Man. There’s nothing she can do about it.

Post # 7
Member
2584 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I agree with PPs… also hoping you weren’t serious about asking if something can “be done.” Braces make people self conscious enough. This girl must be important enough to you to be in your wedding, braces don’t change a person and there are a lot more important things to focus on during wedding planning and the big day than who’s wearing braces.

Post # 8
Member
677 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Ask yourself if you really want to be the sort of bride who would look back at the photos of the happiest day of her life and allow herself to be upset because one of her best friends is wearing braces. That would be pretty shallow and petty.

Post # 9
Member
4653 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

All I can say is learn to love your bridesmaid with the braces if you ask her to get them out for your wedding She will be hurt. Why did you choose her to be a bridesmaid? Think about that instead of her having braces :#

Post # 10
Member
653 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Are you serious?

Post # 12
Member
5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

Unbelievable!

Post # 13
Member
1676 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Getting one’s braces off costs $1000 and takes four hours, and probably sets the process back about six months to a year, and then she needs to pay the same and the same amount of time to get them back on. They don’t just come off, and it’s an extremely painful process. I think you just need to accept that they’re staying.

Post # 14
Member
2103 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Um….Uhhh…for reals? Okay. I’m going to leave this thread alone…

Post # 15
Member
351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@red_pepper_gal: Right you are! This is the LEAST amount of money it costs. Having them removed can also cause swelling in the mouth/lips/gums. As well as start regression of the teeth back to what they were before braces. 

As others have stated. I sincerely hope this is a joke. Braces aren’t the end of the world. If you’re really bothered by them tell her to smile without opening her mouth (though if a bride asked me to do that I would tell her to pi$$ off…but that’s just me.).

Edit to add: It seems your wedding is a week away (or so). Unfortunately most orthodonist appointments have to be scheduled WEEKS in advance. Removal of braces or any appointment taking a good chunk of time (i.e. hours); is usually scheduled a month+ in advance. (I’m just speaking on personal experience of years of orthodonist work on my teeth.)

Post # 16
Member
4887 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Is this for real?  I’m legitimately asking this.  Not trying to snark.

The topic ‘bridesmaid with metal teeth braces’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors