(Closed) Bridesmaid won't order her dress!

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
492 posts
Helper bee

Personally I would order her dress for her. I would call and get her size so she could have the exact measurements. If she is having money problems she will not be able to pay you back for the dress AND have alterations done if you simply ordered in her size without the specific measurements. You said she’s your friend so I am sure she would want to pay her debt to you. I would just want to make sure that everything was taken care of and in motion, even if it meant being out of that money for a short amount of time. 

Post # 19
1754 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

MrsFiveOh:  “I appreciate the comments, but I feel quite confident in my ability to handle my friendships. I would love to hear thoughts as far as what to do about the dress, though?”

I don’t understand this comment – talking to this Bridesmaid or Best Man is THE way to solve the issues about her dress. You don’t want to pay for it, right? So you can’t order it until you get in contact with her and figure out if she’s a) going to pay for it ans participate or b) flaking out and not going to participate. (I don’t think you should change the order of the girls if they look best in the set order as-is.) Really the only way to move forward with solving this issue is to talk to the Bridesmaid or Best Man directly (not texting). I think that’s what PPs are saying. 

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