(Closed) Bridesmaid/BFF Drama/confusion (lonnnnngggg)

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1627 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Truthfully, the story was a little hard to follow.  All in all, I think you need to put the bs drama aside and think about who means the most to you.  Those are the people who should be standing up beside you on your wedding day.  It should have nothing to do with who’s who’s Maid/Matron of Honor, Bridesmaid or Best Man, or simply guest at the other’s wedding, it should be about you personally and who you care about the most.  The other stuff sounds really petty and immature In My Humble Opinion.  In the end, this is about the marriage and coming together of you and your Fiance, not the friendship drama. 🙂 

Post # 4
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3943 posts
Honey bee

Honestly, this whole sitaution sounds really immature. Especially the drunken conversations about your friendship.

Friendships change as we grow older and our lives change. Your bridal party should be the people you love the most, and hope to have in your life for a very long time. It’s not about getting back at people

 

Post # 5
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496 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

If I were you, I would probably be considering having no BMs. I don’t know how you deal with all that drama!

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