(Closed) bridesmaid/groomsman lineup changes…

posted 10 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2633 posts
Sugar bee

Mine hasn’t changed at all.

Your sides don’t have to be even, so I’d just leave it be.

Post # 5
228 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

I know how you feel!  We have a groomsman that is very very close to my FH, they grew up together and everything, that is agoraphobic among other things.  He never leaves his hometown and when he does he is very uncomfortable.  To top it off, he is afraid of flying as well, so there is really no way that he is going to come to our wedding.  The problem is that he won’t say that he isn’t going!  We have asked him repetedly and he says that he is working on it.  My FH’s brother got married 2 years ago and asked this groomsman to be in his wedding as well (he was getting married close to home).  Everything was fine until 2 weeks before my FBIL’s wedding when he suddenly said that he could no longer be in the wedding.  For NO REASON!  My Future Brother-In-Law offered to pay for all of his expenses, since he (the groomsman) was like a second older brother to him and still he said no.  But, get this…he still came to the wedding as a guest!  WTF?  I feel really bad for my FH because I know that this person means a lot to him, but honestly, I don’t expect him to come.  Its a shame too because his wife was really looking forward to going to Jamaica!

Needless to say, I am very frustrated with this gm’s behavior!  I understand if he has a problem with expenses or with his mental issues, but just TELL US!  I’m really afraid that he is going to drop out 2 weeks before liek he did to my Future Brother-In-Law.  It will break my FH’s heart 🙁

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