(Closed) Bridesmaids

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Should I call and ask do they still want to attend?
    Ask them to just step down? : (7 votes)
    70 %
    Just wait it out, and dont buy any gifts or flowers just yet? : (2 votes)
    20 %
    nothing : (1 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4524 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @kenya.latham.1:  If someone really wants to be your bridesmaid, you’ll know.  These two are either just absent minded or don’t really care to be your bridesmaids and don’t know how to tell you.  I’ve been in that situation before, and sometimes people will just avoid a situation rather than telling you and risk hurting you.

     

    I’d go to them one last time and say “Listen, you know I’d love for you to be in my wedding, but I’ve noticed you havent ordered your dress.  If you cannot order it by this week, that is fine and we would still love to have you there to enjoy the wedding as our guest :)” Give them an easy out.

    Post # 5
    Member
    5191 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    @kenya.latham.1:  you’ve still got almost 4 months until your wedding. Why all the stress? 

    Post # 6
    Member
    496 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    It’s not worth it. If they wanted to be in the wedding, they would have ordered the dress. Tell them that you’re sorry but they haven’t ordered the dress on time and unfortunately can no longer be in the wedding. You gave them a deadline, they didn’t meet it.

    Post # 8
    Member
    5191 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    @kenya.latham.1:  gotcha. Well that’s definitely messed up of them.

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