(Closed) Bridesmaids and Family Politics equals major stress. Please Help!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1001 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I say ask who you want.  If you’re not close with his sisters, why SHOULD they be on your side?  Would your fiance consider having them as “groomswomen”?

I never really understood the point of asking your fiance’s siblings to stand up for you, unless they are your best friends.  Your bridesmaids should be the most important people in your life.

Post # 4
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751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

ask who you want its who you have to put up with in the long run lol.

Post # 5
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972 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Its your wedding, you do what you want, dont stress out over it, just ask her. She’s putting in effort and helping your sister so why not? Has his sisters offered any help?  Its nice to honor her support somehow and im sure she will be thrilled.  

Post # 6
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205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I say Ask her! you should have who you want and she seems like she is a perfect bridesmaid already helping with so much. i would def have her there and even bump her up to stand right behind the Maid/Matron of Honor. She has been acting already as one and helping out. have any of his sister done that?

 

Post # 7
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257 posts
Helper bee

ask her! 🙂  she sounds like a great friend!

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