(Closed) Bridesmaids aren’t communicating! What to do?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Maybe something as simple as calling rather than emaiing? You never know what ways work best for people to communicate.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

What has worked best when I was a Bridesmaid or Best Man in the past was to assign girls specific duties… like one girl will be in charge of games and prizes, another girl will be in charge of getting the cake,  another invitations, another wine or decor… you get the idea.  it was a lot easier to take on 1 or 2 things individually, rather than make a bunch of little decisions as a group.  I’d e.mail the 1 Bridesmaid or Best Man who is sort of heading the thing, and tell her to start delegating.  If no one is stepping up with ideas, it’s probably time for her to start assigning duties.  I would try to stay out of it, but be supportive and helpful to the friend who’s actually trying to be a good BM!

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

@.twist.: If the bridesmaid planning it thinks waiting is silly, she should verbalize that to the other girls instead of assuming they are wrong and going on with the planning. Communication is key – everyone needs to be on the same page and they don’t seem to be.

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