- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
I, like many of you bees, am having a HUGE dilemna choosing my maids.
My maid of honour is a lock, that’s not a problem at all.
But the maids… OH THE MAIDS!
My Fiance is choosing my 2 brothers and his 2 brothers so I am going to be choosing my Maid/Matron of Honor, two sister inlaws, which leaves one open spot, and 2 cousins who will be VERY upset. We have been cose ever since we were little, but for the past fewyears I’ve grown further apart from them. We are still close, and they think everything is hunky dory when we’re together but deep down I feel like I’m not as in tune with them anymore.
They kind of just assume they will be in my wedding party but I really don’t want to.
I was thinking of asking a different single cousin or friend of mine instead and telling them I wanted to keep the numbers even so since I only had one spot left, I couldnt choose between the 2 of them so I chose (my friend) instead. But im afraid it still wont bode well with them.
I know it’s my wedding and I should only worry about what I want for m bridal party but I just hate feeling like I’ve hurt someones feelings. Especially my cousins who expect to be in it.
Does anyone have any advice?…please?
Thanks in advance!