Post # 1
i have asked who i thought was my best friend to be bridesmaid aswell as another friend and when my best friend found out i had asked my other friend to be bridesmaid too all hell broke loose because i asked my friend and not my best friends sister now she says shes not being bridesmaid because i havent asked her sister to be one too. I thought she was my best friend but obviously i was VERY wrong. How can someone think they have a right to say who i should have as bridesmaid ( its MY wedding !! ) Now she says she wont be my bridesmaid and she doesnt want anything to do with me no more which is fair enough as shes not the friend i thought she was . I cant believe a wedding couls cause soo much trouble.
Post # 3
As someone who has been a bridesmaid 15 times, let me tell you that having your wedding is the best and fastest way to figure out who your true friends are.
Post # 4
were you friends with her sister too? What a weird thing to get mad about…
Post # 5
@Ryansgirl:I am friends with her sister but not as close as the two bridesmaids i chose i cant believe she is upset that i havent picked her sister but at the end of the day i picked who I want to be my B.M and i picked my ( so called ) best friend but because i havent picked her sister to be B.M too she has said shes not going to be my B.M now so at the end of the day im happy that she has shown the type of person she really is before she has the privilege to be B.M. Instead of feeling privileged to be B.M shes upset that her sister isnt so at the end of the day who needs enemys when you’ve got a friend like that .
Post # 6
i know how you feel. I have just asked my wedding party and people are going nuts! I have a big party as it is. People are just crazy when it comes to this. I even had someone ,who’s in my party, make a comment about the color. She said that was her color..um… your not even engaged! People are nuts! Good luck stick to your guns!