(Closed) Never mind :(

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014
Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

Personally, I think the reason you ask someone to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man is not because of who will be the most helpful, but who you are the closest to.  You need to fix the poll to only let 1 option since you’re only picking 1 girl now and to revise the question to say 1 Bridesmaid or Best Man.  And you need to tell me who between friend 2, 3 and 4 you are closest to.  Whether they’re busy with life is a secondary issue, IMO. 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I would probably go with friend #2 since she’s expressed the most interest in your wedding and you are closer to her than friend #4. I’m newly married and thinking about new home issues, but I am definitely less busy/occupied than my pregnant friends.

I would avoid friend #3 bc she is busy with her pregnancy and there could be drama in the future if you want a lot from her (e.g. help with planning, attending apppointments, going to all the parties). Plus, finances could be an issue for her.

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