(Closed) Bridesmaids Drama — feeling dismissed

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

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karapp :  If I had bridesmaids like that I’d tell them to back out and opt to have NO bridesmaids. It sounds like the people you chose as bridesmaids aren’t close to you and would rather go to music festivals than your wedding -_-

Post # 3
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Busy bee

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karapp :  It’s considerate to check dates with the bridal party, but I’ve never heard of a bride and groom getting their wedding colors approved by the bridal party. This sucks, bee. I’m sad for you. It sounds like the Maid/Matron of Honor isn’t in the party anymore, right? Will you continue to keep the 2nd bm in your wedding if she could care less? I think you need to step back and evaluate everything. Most important thing is marrying your Fiance. If you end up with just 1 bm, just roll with it. Don’t allow toxic friendships get you down. Hold your chin up.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper

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karapp :  

I’m so glad things are sorted with bm 1 and 3. Frankly  bm 2 sounds unhinged . Well done that you have decided to do her the the favour of asking  her to be  a guest only, to a save her all the trouble .   Who needs her !   

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