- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
So I had my bachelorette party last night. All but one of my bridesmaids attended the same college as I did so we went back to town where the university is located for my big last hoo-rah!
The night started out AMAZING and everything was going smoothly until I noticed one of the girls crying. When I asked why she was crying, she apologized for ruining my party and being rude. I told her I wasn’t mad at all! I just wanted to know why she was upset! She told me to forget about it and to just have a fun time….
An hour later, she is crying again and this time I get to the bottom of it. Her and another bridesmaid had gotten into it earlier over something small and petty. The night went down hill fast. We had to leave the bars because they were screaming at each other so loudly. Then another bridesmaid started to intervene and then she started crying! My Maid/Matron of Honor and I were just completely stunned. Oh and this is after another bridesmaid just left and went home without saying goodbye or any explanation of where she was going. (We all were in the same hotel room suite and she was not there when we finally arrived back to the room.) So these three bridesmaid preceded to yell at each other in the hotel and we were asked several times by the staff to cut it out. They even started talking bad about me and my MOH! I cried 🙁 I was so sad! After all was said and done, their fight turned into the center or the night and everyone went to bed either crying, sad, confused, or mad. It was awful!
One of the bridesmaids also told me that she thought the jewelry which I had looked and looked and looked for the girls was UGLY! They screamed so much I finally started crying myself! My best friends, my bridesmaids…acting like crazy people and not to sound like an attention brat but ruined my bachelorette party! They very drunkenly apologized but the next morning, nothing was said soberly. I only get married once and I am very disappointed to have this memory. Is there anything I can do to fix it? They want to try and throw me a 2nd bach party to make up for this one but I am kind of scared that it might happen again! What do i do? What do I say? I love them all dearly as friends but I am really hurt about the way they acted, the things they said to me and each other, and the entire situation as a whole. I haven’t answered any of their phone calls because I don’t know what to say to them. Please help!