(Closed) Bridesmaids, drama, oh boy…

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
808 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

You need to sit them all down WITH the bride and explain what you just said on here. It needs to be said or it will just blow out of proportion and you will get used and tossed. Good luck hun

Post # 4
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386 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

@russian_doll:  I agree with this. I hate that the bride needs to be involved but she might need to know. She knows these girls better than you do and unfortunately I think they need to know they have to step up and pay you, not take credit for what they didn’t do.

Post # 5
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

What a sticky situation. Maybe they don’t realize how much you’ve spent because it hasn’t been listed before them. I agree with the PP, you need to talk to them. Maybe first send them an email or message detailing all of your expenses. If they don’t respond within a week or so, ask the bride to talk to them for you. 

Post # 6
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688 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m going to agree with PP’s here, the bride is the common thread between all of you and she can probably talk the most sense into her BM’s. As for the rest of the wedding activities, bring cash to pay your part and put your foot down…it really stinks that they have taken advantage of your generosity.

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