Post # 1
So I am getting married in April in FL. I have 4 Bridesmaid or Best Man and all of them are future sis in laws.. I dont want them to look the same so i have been trying to pick dresses out for them and they cant all agree on one and they dont have the same shape/style.. HARD!!! I feel like i have looked at ever website there is.. Just wanted to see if anyone had any secret website weapons?? ALL major Dept stores are out..
Post # 3
Since you don’t want them to look the same, have you considered just giving them a specific color and letting them pick whatever type of dress they want on their own?
Or would you prefer to pick them?
Post # 4
im giving my bridesmaids a color, so they can get the dress they want and it doesnt matter if the color is not excactly the same. so they can be confortable and happy with the dress
Post # 5
yes i have tries with giving them a color but they picked different fabrics and it didnt look right.. then i tried a cut and they could pick the color .. that didnt work either.. I guess thats what i get for picking 4 sisters.. you should see us try to pick a place we all like to eat,,lol i told them to send me what they likes and then i could go from there but it just doesnt work.. I should of never gave a option.. i should of just picked what i liked but i want them to feel good and i hate wearing ugly bm dresses.. but i deff see why people do it..
Post # 6
hummmm, yeah it sounds like the floodgates are open, and now you are overwhelmed!
IMO, I think you should just determine the dress you want them to wear, or find 2 or 3 options and take a vote, majority wins.
If you don’t make the decision, I think you will keep going in circles w/ them not agreeing & you don’t want to stress yourself out! 🙂