(Closed) Bridesmaids EX-Boyfriend drama

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What should i do?
    Tell him ourselves he is uninvited. : (7 votes)
    25 %
    He got a save the date and RSVPed ... cant unvite him now! : (1 votes)
    4 %
    Just b/c he got a save the date and RSVPed he didnt get the formal invititation yet. So univite : (13 votes)
    46 %
    Just let him come and let Ashley deal with the situation she presented herself. : (1 votes)
    4 %
    Wait for Ashley to deal with it, but who knows when that will happen : (6 votes)
    21 %
  • Post # 3
    1470 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    This is why you send the invite to your friends only and they can bring a date or boyfriend or whoever!  Im not sure what you should do, you already invited him, I would let your friend take care of it and talk to him.  I cant belive he wants to come!

    Post # 4
    363 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    How much info was on the save the date? If there wasn’t specific info on the save the date about the when/where and you don’t have any mutual friends who might give him the info, then I’d just never send the invite. If there was specific info on the STD, then I wouldn’t send an invite but I’d make a place for him anyway, just so it wouldn’t be awkward if he shows up anyway. 

    It seems very odd that he’s insisting on this, since he doesn’t seem to be a friend of yours and he’s refusing to have contact with your friend. Do you think he is intentionally trying to be difficult re: the wedding?

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