(Closed) bridesmaids from hell??

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

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ooooo girl… I feel your pain. Been there…..done that….and almost kicked they asses out the wedding. Sadly I have 10 bm, 4 of whom are my fsil…they haven’t helped with anything! So I told them I don’t need anything from them but to wear a dress, look pretty and smile during photos. My other 6 bm ( my sister, cousins and bff) have been amazing…but his sisters….are horrible!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

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see I gave my girls a deadline…the first 6 got theirs ordered and waaay before the dead line….the other went the last day… 2 hours before the shop closed. Im so sorry your going through this.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

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no its your wedding….you only get this time once in your life. Kick them out, have a small stress free wedding. They haven’t spent money on anything yet so you should be fine.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

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6 mths out and the wedding is in another country….you def should kick them out. Just explain to them how you feel and that you hope you guys can celebrate after the wedding.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Have a serious talk with them. Tell them your concerns.

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

if you do want to kick them out, you could try doing it diplomatically.  like rather than saying hey you suck, therefore i’m kicking you out, you could try hey, i know being a bridesmaid is a lot of work, a lot of money, and as much as i want you to be in it and share in my excitement, it also comes with some “work”.  since it’s been difficult for you so far to be on board with details and things, i feel that this is kind of a burden for you at this point, so i’m going to just reduce my bridal party to the 3 people who have the time for it.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@szaerpoor: Oooo good response! Or at the end say, so I’m giving you the option to opt out.

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