- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
I am having a hard time choosing my BMs. I would only have one or even non if it was up to me but my Fiance is having 4 Groomsmen so I feel like I at least need 3 Bridesmaid or Best Man. I have 2 friends that I am trying to decide if I want in my wedding. One I use to worked with and have only known her for about 3 years now, but now that we don’t work together I never see or hear from her unless I contact her, which is frustrating. The other friend I was thinking about having in my wedding is a girl that I have been with for about 4 years but definately not close. She asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding which I was really surprised about because we really didn’t talk unless our social circles met up. I am thinking I might ask my brother Girlfriend because she is a sweatheart and I feel like she would make a good Groomsmen. I could also ask my Fiance sister because we are cool but I feel if I ask her I would have to ask his sister in law. I know his sister in law would have hurt feeling if I asked his sister and didn’t ask her. I really don’t know what to do. I feel like just using my 2 friends that I am not really close with and my brothers gf just so no one has hurt feelings. Should I be worried about that when its my wedding?