(Closed) Bridesmaids paying for their own dress??

posted 11 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1246 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

From my own experience, I’d be thrilled if my gift was the dress. I think a handwritten, heartfelt note or card, perhaps coupled with something small (like lunch out, if you can afford it), would be perfectly acceptable "gifts" in this instance.

Post # 4
68 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2007 - Restaurant in Burlington

I agree — it’s very generous to pay for their dresses.  I bought my girls gifts (about $100) but they bought their own dress.  I’m sure they’ll be honored to participate.

Post # 5
65 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

Whenever I’ve been a bridesmaid, our gift was always the dress or earrings to wear at the ceremony, etc.  I don’t think gifts are necessary – in fact I didn’t even know most people gave gifts until I came to wedding forums!  I think the dress as a gift is perfect.

Post # 6
202 posts
Helper bee

I’m buying my girls’ dresses too – they are already doing so much to help out on our special day. But yes, I’m getting them each a bridesmaid gift as well. If you’re budget-conscious, you can definitely just give their dresses as their gift or if your dresses were not excessively priced, perhaps you can add on a inexpensive cute necklace, clutch or other small gift. Receiving a gift, no matter how small, is a nice gesture and thank you for being your support on your wedding day. 🙂

Post # 7
84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2007 - Ceremony at a cement and stained glass cathedral and reception at a boutique hotel ballroom

I bought my girls their dresses and also gave them a small gift. I think it’s perfectly acceptable to just give them the dress as a gift, but it’s also a nice touch to make them a card and do a small bridesmaid lunch.

Post # 8
296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2008

I’d say the dress and a card expressing your thanks for their support is perfect! If you want to add something small, check out the Micheals dollar bins. They’re full of wonderful stuff right now (set up for stocking stuffers). I found these beautiful monogramed note pads and note card sets for $1 each! SCORE! I love dollar bins!!! I always stroll by Target’s too. I found individual packages of Gheridelli (sp?) coffee for the out of towner’s bags there for a dollar.

Post # 9
88 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2007

i bought my bridesmaids their dresses ($150), their shoes ($30), took them to get manicures ($15) and then treated them to lunch, where I gave them each a heartfelt thank you card. 

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