Post # 1
i feel like my BM’s are just not interested in doing anything wedding related.
I try to keep them in the loop of whats going on but they really dont seem at all excited. Two of them have recently just changed the subject when i brought the wedding up.
Could it maybe just be me who is over excited? Could it be that its just too far away just yet for them to start getting excited?? I just feel like these are the girls who would listen to me complain about flowers and centerpeices…Now I just feel annoying….
Post # 3
I think what it comes down to is that nobody else will ever be as excited about your wedding as you are. Look at it from their point of view: it’s only one day and it’s almost 7 months away! I’m sure that they’re excited for you and about the wedding, but you may just be keeping them *too* in the loop for what they can handle this far from the wedding.
You might want to try rotating who you talk to. IE, talk to one girl about the exciting florists you’re considering, talk to another about the linens, etc. Don’t bother updating *all* of them unless it’s “hey, I made a decision and put down money on x venue / my dress / something else major.” That way maybe they won’t feel like it’s only wedding, wedding, wedding all the time – and make sure that you’re still talking about non-wedding stuff too!