(Closed) Bridesmaids suddenly reluctant…

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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2747 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

If they’re still being difficult, I’d say to them, “I understand that being in the bridal party can be stressful.  If you are not up for it, I totally understand.”  Give them a “way out”.  If the doesn’t jolt them in the butt, you can find someone else.

Post # 4
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962 posts
Busy bee

@vlbee: I hear ya, girl. People are constantly disappointing me with re: to how they are acting about my wedding. It is very difficult to realize that some people are self serving and apathetic about your wedding, but it is what it is. I know I sound like I am being demanding but honestly I’m a laid back bride too. It’s just that more than a few people have disappointed me big time, including bms. My advice? don’t think too much about it. just make a mental note that maybe these girls are not as good of friends as you had hoped. Tell them the color and style, etc. and let them pick it up on their own time. Simply tell them that if they do not show up in an appropriate dress on the day of your wedding then they cannot be bms. Leave it at that. Stop trying with them.

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