- 6 years ago
I need to vent…I am trying to be an easy bride, and I think it’s blowing up in my face!
I have no idea what’s going on with 2 of my bridesmaids. They are my FI’s 2 cousins . They are both a little younger than me, but we have always gotten along really well and became really close.
Since August we have had to make and cancel plans for bridesmaid dress shopping because of bad weather, sickness, etc. and now I am finally trying to plan something for this weekend. I sent both of them an email with links asking them about what dresses they liked and what day we could go. These are two people who are glued to their iPhone constantly checking emails, Facebook, etc. I waited three days… and heard nothing until I had to call them to see what they thought. They were going to just let it go and not respond to me. It seems like they trying to put this off as long as possible.
Now we made plans to go dress shopping this weekend, but it’s going to have to be a totally rushed thing because…I don’t know, they don’t want to waste their day or someting. I don’t think I am asking for anything crazy.. I am telling them the color and fabric of the dress and letting them choose their own style. It’s so frustrating to have two bridesmaids who were really into this at first and now seem like they don’t care.
Anyone have similar frustrations with distant and indifferent bridesmaids?