(Closed) Bridesmaids ugh (a rant)

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I think they are trying to be nice! Be glad that they are supportive of whatever decision(s) you might want. Try getting together with them one-on-one, maybe with one of the BMs that you are closest to and ask her what she wants to wear. Most of my girls said the same thing–whatever I wanted them to wear–and I think that’s fine. It doesn’t mean that they don’t want to be involved. If you’d like them to help out, give them specific things that they can help out with. For example, helping you find a cake baker, or something like that. They can research for you.

Why do you say there won’t be a bridal shower?

Post # 5
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328 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

well, it’s still far away! Maybe your mom or your aunts will bring it up with them if the are family. If your sisters are young, maybe they just haven’t thought about it.

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