(Closed) Bridesmaids want to go elsewhere to get hair/makeup done

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 61
1081 posts
Bumble bee

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clattarulo626:  if you want to be together, you jave to be willing to pay for it and stop expecting them to pay for your wishes…

i wanted them all with me when I got married and the day off; I payed for the hotel suite to fit 6 of us (bride, bridesmaids, mother of the bride) I hosted breakfast and lunch and payed 50% of hair and make up.

focus on a solution instead of expecting them to please you. If you’re the one who wants, you make it happen.

Post # 62
111 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

If they go earlier, theu can still come to the salon and be with you!  going separately might be better because you may take a shorter amount of time to accommodate everyone.  they will look forward to it more by having someone they trust do their hair.  It will all work out!

Post # 63
824 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I have no idea why anyone would insist on their own salon, in my experience bridal parties get ready together and this will take away from that, but definitely do NOT pay for them to go elsewhere. As long as they are where they are supposed to be at the requested time for the service/ pictures/whatever, try not to let it bother you. 

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