(Closed) Bridesmaids… what to do?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

No way! Don’t just forget about it!

I’d sic my Maid/Matron of Honor on them if I were you. 🙂

Post # 4
6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Hmm.. Have you given them the dresses yet? If you get them first, hold them ransom until you get your $. Or just talk one-on-one with both girls and say money’s been tight, you really need to be paid back even though it’s only $30. You hope they understand and didn’t think it would be a problem back in June whenthey said $30 was okay with them.

Post # 5
1336 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I know you’re tired of having to remind them, and I would mention that.  “It might seem like I’m bugging, but since I still haven’t heard back about the  dress I just want to make sure you got the original message…etc.” You’re right it’s not fair to just let them off the hook when others paid for their dress, they need to also, if they had not expected that why accept being the bridesmaid?  At this point, there is no excuse since you had told them the money was being borrowed, so no miscommunication there.  Good luck, I hope you get a response soon.  But I would keep trying.

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